Sexual facts

Your sex drive and stamina fluctuate during different times. The penis and vagina don’t always act the way you want it to.

Sometimes you can have a hard time to get an erection. Sometimes you have difficulty to hold your ejaculation. You cannot always feel stimulated

Women don’t get aroused sometimes. They have their menstruation period. Sometimes they don’t have a libido.

Those problems are not something; you need to talk to a doctor about it. It is normal that your sex life can occasionally suffer a setback.

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You can maintain the quality of sex by communicating with your partner. You need to do some kind of maintenances of sex life. I suggest those:

1, Be open to each other:

Both partners have to very open to one another. Some men, for example, can be turned on if the woman put her finger in the butt. Some women can be turned on if the man plays with the vagina and butt hole at the same time.

2, Don’t find an excuse to skip sex:

Never try to skip sex because you are too busy or you have a hectic day. Take a hot shower together. Make some kind of sexy environment with candlelight for example. A piece of romantic music could add more spices. You can give her a full-body oil massage. You can both be horny.

3, Couple sex toys are useful:

Sex toy helps sometimes. There many couples of sex toys you both can play together. There are exciting sex toys for a couple these days. You can always add some variety of sex toys to your bedroom repertoire. Find what fits to your interest.

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4, Take things slow and relaxing:

Don’t rush into sex. Take things slowly. Use a lot of time for foreplay. Erogenous zones differ from person to person. (An erogenous zone is an area of the human body that has heightened sensitivity, which, when stimulated, may create a sexual response) You must know each other’s erogenous zones. When you know that, you can effectively stimulate your partner.

5. Porn can contribute positively:

Watch porn together. Recent researches show, porn actually makes men better in sex. Don’t think that women don’t like porn because they do. You touch each other’s genitals while watching porn.

6, Talk about your sex fantasies:

Every one of us has sexual fantasies. But they don’t say it loudly.  Don’t feel shy. You must tell your partner what you have in your fantasies. Maybe you want her to swallow all your cum. She may have some fantasies too. The important thing that you reveal your partner’s fantasy.

7. Dirty talking:

Talk dirty to one another. For sex abstract romantic talk does not help much. Be vulgar-fuck instead of making love. If you don’t know the dirty way of talking, you got to learn it